This issue was brought into the news this week when the Washington Post ran a piece on Karen Pence, the wife of
our current vice president, and reminded readers of something Mike Pence said
in 2002: He does not eat alone with a woman or attend an event where alcohol is
being served unless his wife is present. The Twittersphere lit up like a
Christmas tree with jokes and rants about Pence’s wife-rule. It’s not clear
whether Pence still adheres to this practice, but there are men who do.
The Atlantic reports, such arrangements are especially
common within marriages between religious conservatives of various stripes. (It
need not be only men who follow such strictures, but the emphasis is often on
male temptation.) On Capitol Hill, where the work days are long and individuals
spend long hours away from their families, some Congressmen will not travel
alone in a car with a female staffer, the National Journal has reported. Some politicians set
gender-neutral rules that have a side effect of keeping them from being alone
with women — such as excluding any staff from the office before 7 am or after 7
pm — but others clearly apply special rules to women.
Employers are not permitted to classify employees on the basis of gender
without proof that sex is a bona fide occupational qualification for a
particular job. A Pence-type rule could never satisfy this test. A male boss
cannot casually separate certain jobs, tasks, or opportunities for men only.
Women have been shut out of equal employment opportunity for all of
history. It’s long past time the doors to power and opportunity were opened,
whether after hours, on a trip, or, in Pence’s world, working dinner with a
male boss.